Victory Gardens Theater IF I FORGET Review – Jewish Family Drama

The year is 2000.

The boom is at its peak and the Nokia is the cellphone of choice.

The election is on the horizon and hopefully a resolution for the Isreali-Palestinian conflict as well.

All of these changes - social, political, and cultural - and more come to a head during one family’s time together in IF I FORGET.

Victory Gardens’ Family Drama

As we take our seats and turn our attention to the stage, we’re greeted by the inside of a two-story home. Family photos adorn the walls. Bookshelves are lined with books and knick-knacks. And the worn, beige carpet makes us feel this house is lived-in, this is a family home.

Here the Fischer family - three siblings and their respective spouses - has gathered to celebrate their father’s 75th birthday. They might not be the most religiously devout Jewish family, but their Jewish identity is rooted deep within each of them.

Victory Gardens IF I FORGET
Daniel Cantor, Elizabeth Ledo, and David Darlow Photo: Liz Lauren

When middle brother and Jewish studies professor, Michael, is about to publish a book questioning the modern Jewish identity, it feels like a personal attack on the family as well as attacking the Jewish people as a whole. It adds fire to the flame of an already emotionally heightened family gathering just waiting for it all to explode.

Victory Gardens IF I FORGET
The cast of If I Forget Photo: Liz Lauren

Kitchen Sink of Conflicts

For this writer, the most compelling part of IF I FORGET is the many, many different values, ideas, and conflicts that form the Jewish identity and how this family unpacks it all. In addition to Michael’s provocative book, the family touches on social and personal influences as well.

They must deal with how politics affects them like the impending election and the Camp David Summit.

They must deal with each of their personal issues like Sharon’s affair with a married man, Michael’s daughter’s health, and Holly trying to launch her interior design business.

And finally, they must figure out issues that impact the entire family. How will they care for their ailing father? What will happen to the family store?

Victory Gardens IF I FORGET
Daniel Cantor and David Darlow Photo: Liz Lauren
Victory Gardens IF I FORGET
The cast of If I Forget Photo: Liz Lauren

Compelling Performances

IF I FORGET is a dialogue heavy show as the family talks about all their problems in snippets and one on one conversations with each other. Because this play has so many issues and conflicts going on at once, without such an adept cast, it might have made for a confusing play without one through line.

But the entire cast keeps the right balance and pace talking about these issues in light, small talk conversations as well as ramping up to full-blown arguments. It feels like we’re able to touch on all these topics without the play being too heavy-handed.  Their emotions never feel forced or out of place and every topic seems to come up naturally.

IF I FORGET is a show that explores conflicts that perhaps a broad number of families might face as well as ones that are particular to those in the Jewish community. If you’re interested in shows exploring cultures and family dramas with lots of explosive emotions, this show would be a great fit for you.


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Now through July 7, 2019
Tuesdays - Fridays at 7:30pm
Saturdays at 3:00pm and 7:30pm
Sundays at 3:00pm


Victory Gardens Theater
2433 N Lincoln Ave.
Chicago, IL



Full price tickets can be purchased through the Victory Gardens website or by calling the box office at 773.871.3000


Liz Lauren

Note: Picture this Post reviews are excerpted by Theatre in Chicago

Alexis Bugajski Photo: Liz Lin

About the Author

Alexis is a theater reviewer, travel bug, media specialist, and burger & beer enthusiast. During the day she works in the advertising business as a media supervisor. When night falls, or when she can escape to New York, she’s hitting the theaters to see as many shows as she can. And whenever she’s not at her desk or in the audience, she’s out seeking the best burger and beer offerings in Chicago.

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